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Do you play it safe with your creativity, be it expressed through dancing, music, writing, painting, acting . . . ? Do you find yourself working with the same old, relaxed many people , places, and situations? Where do you hold back, or fear to tread at all? The truth is, we all play it safe: in our art, our work, and our lives. Weve been taught to do so from birth. First our parents protected us from danger, then schools, society, and various government agencies took over. Now its become a deeply ingrained, limiting habit.

Perhaps you play it safe with the kind of things you create, sticking to one topic, outlet or style. Maybe you avoid uncomfortable issues in your work, situations that get just a little too real, or a character thats a little too like you. Or you have this fantastic idea that youre standing around to do because, "Youre just not great enough yet." Maybe you limit yourself to local venues, or dont charge enough for your work. Or perhaps, you couldnt bring yourself to call that agent, that potential backer, that gallery, and pitch your work.

Wherever you play it safe in your creativity is also where you play it safe in life. Cant make your characters get confrontational? Well then, inquire of yourself, how well do you handle confrontation? Follow all the rules in your painting? Where else do you blindly toe the line? Cant send that demo tape into the radio station? Where else do you lack confidence?

Theres nothing intrinsically wrong in playing it safe. We all do it in order to surviveor so weve been taughtbut as we move through life, we outgrow our safety nets, just as weve outgrown our playpens and car seats. Some of us consistently choose the known over the unknown, the small but sure return over the risky investment. Others play it safe by avoiding the chance of rejection, exposure, or disappointment. Sometimes we play it safe in one area of our lives so we can waltz on the precipices edge in another. But playing it safe is really grasping the biggest risk of all: the risk that we will never learn or grow in that particular area. And those are the areas where lifes most precious and important lessons await.

So what would happen if you stopped playing it safe, just for a little while? How would your creativity blossom and grow? In our art, at least, we might explore with safety. We may stretch ourselves beyond what we thought we could do. These are just paint smears on canvas, or electrons on a screen, or a series of moves set to music. We might paint over it or delete the document or change the steps if we get too scared.

I challenge you to utilize your art, your creativity, whatever your outlet, to deepen your data of yourself. This next month, beginning noticing where you play it safe in your art. Notice where you back off, instead of pushing forward, where you tiptoe timidly instead of striding forth boldly. Notice what you approach with caution, rather than with curiosity and adventure.

Then throw that caution to the winds, and take that risk! See how much richer your art becomes.

And your life.

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